All this happened quite a while ago, but I've had no energy to deal with it before, I just get a stomach ache whenever I think about it. It just keeps bugging me though, and I don't know what to do, so I'm hoping to get some help here about what to do.
I was doing a partial trade with GraysonsMommy (I believe that's her TP name). I was sending her a MIB Confetti Wedding Bells and she would send me a TE Bright Eyes and $44 through paypal. We agreed to this on october 15th, a friday. I told her I would send out on monday or tuseday and I gave her my paypal addy. She said "Sounds perfect! I may send mine out this weekend though."
On monday the 18th I realized I didn't have her postal address so I asked for it. I got a reply on tuesday the 19th, she gave mer her address and also said "I'm going to send you the money as soon as someone else pays for their MOC Fizzy."
I sent out my part of the trade on Wednesday the 20th of october (my father drove me to the post office so I even have a witness).
Now, over the next few months I emailed her frequently about not having gotten either payment or pony. On december 28th I finally got a reply.
Her email (I hope it's okay to post this here, otherwise I appologize): "Hey! I know, I haven't gotten Wedding Confetti either. You said you sent her, correct? I was waiting for her to send out Bright Eyes, but I never received her. We've got to figure this out!"
I replied saying that I sent the pony on the 20th of october, and she confirmed that the address I had used was correct. I then replied: "Hmm. Why did you wait with sending your part of the trade? We never agreed to that! Aand why haven't you emailed me until now? I've emailed you several times about not getting anything. You've never replied and you've never said that you would wait with sending. I think this sounds a bit suspicious... =/"
She replied "Well, if you think it sounds suspicious, that's fine. But I have all positive feedback on MLPTP. I haven't gotten any other emails from you at all! I checked my junk mail too. There's nothing from you."
I haven't emailed her or heard from her since then (exept this week when she made an offer on my MOC Pony Wear).
Now I realize that things sometimes get lost in the mail (even though it's never happened to me, and I think it's pretty hard to loose such a big package), and I realize that there could have been email problems, and that's the reason she never replied to me.
What buggs me is the fact that SHE never contacted ME about not getting anything, and that she never sent me the payment or pony, and now she suddenly claims she was waiting for my end of the trade to arrive before she would send hers, even though we never agreed to such a thing, and she even said "I might send out this weekend" and "I'm going to send you the money as soon as someone else pays for their MOC Fizzy"
I don't feel that this is something we'll be able to solve privately, but I will email GraysonsMommy and direct her here after I post this. Any help or opinions on this matter would be greatly appreciated!
/Rosse
I was doing a partial trade with GraysonsMommy (I believe that's her TP name). I was sending her a MIB Confetti Wedding Bells and she would send me a TE Bright Eyes and $44 through paypal. We agreed to this on october 15th, a friday. I told her I would send out on monday or tuseday and I gave her my paypal addy. She said "Sounds perfect! I may send mine out this weekend though."
On monday the 18th I realized I didn't have her postal address so I asked for it. I got a reply on tuesday the 19th, she gave mer her address and also said "I'm going to send you the money as soon as someone else pays for their MOC Fizzy."
I sent out my part of the trade on Wednesday the 20th of october (my father drove me to the post office so I even have a witness).
Now, over the next few months I emailed her frequently about not having gotten either payment or pony. On december 28th I finally got a reply.
Her email (I hope it's okay to post this here, otherwise I appologize): "Hey! I know, I haven't gotten Wedding Confetti either. You said you sent her, correct? I was waiting for her to send out Bright Eyes, but I never received her. We've got to figure this out!"
I replied saying that I sent the pony on the 20th of october, and she confirmed that the address I had used was correct. I then replied: "Hmm. Why did you wait with sending your part of the trade? We never agreed to that! Aand why haven't you emailed me until now? I've emailed you several times about not getting anything. You've never replied and you've never said that you would wait with sending. I think this sounds a bit suspicious... =/"
She replied "Well, if you think it sounds suspicious, that's fine. But I have all positive feedback on MLPTP. I haven't gotten any other emails from you at all! I checked my junk mail too. There's nothing from you."
I haven't emailed her or heard from her since then (exept this week when she made an offer on my MOC Pony Wear).
Now I realize that things sometimes get lost in the mail (even though it's never happened to me, and I think it's pretty hard to loose such a big package), and I realize that there could have been email problems, and that's the reason she never replied to me.
What buggs me is the fact that SHE never contacted ME about not getting anything, and that she never sent me the payment or pony, and now she suddenly claims she was waiting for my end of the trade to arrive before she would send hers, even though we never agreed to such a thing, and she even said "I might send out this weekend" and "I'm going to send you the money as soon as someone else pays for their MOC Fizzy"
I don't feel that this is something we'll be able to solve privately, but I will email GraysonsMommy and direct her here after I post this. Any help or opinions on this matter would be greatly appreciated!
/Rosse
Thanks for the warning though.
